6 ways to build long-lasting self-confidence- no more doubt!
6 ways to build long-lasting self-confidence?
Self-confidence is something that can break all the bad intentions that are inside you. Similarly, you can break the doubt that is present on yourself and for which you are unable to stand on the desk for a presentation in presence of audiences, you are unable to speak publicly, you are doubting if you are empathetic or not. So, these are the most common purposes in our life to be successful, to become a person in front of the world. So, if you can build the term 'self-confidence' on yourself, everything around you will be easy-peasy. Now, we will see how we can easily build self-confidence in ourselves and break the wall of doubt.
Hello readers, this is Sidratul Montaha and today I'll be writing on the topic
6 ways you can build self-confidence in yourself
I have given a small introduction about self-confidence and what you can build or break, which fear you can break, what you can gain by building self-confidence. Now, we will see the key points. Let's start-
KEY POINT 1:- Take care of yourself
This is really important for an adult person because if you spend time behind a person who really doesn't care about you, then you're feelings are going in vain. So this is one thing that this generation of people is doing. But what I'm trying to say is, your first priority should be 'YOU' and it's for 'always. Because, this is simply that if you arent taking care of yourself, as usual, you cannot take care of another person or a person you love.
Take care of yourself means, taking care of your food, your study, your health, your medicine, your clothes, your personal items, etc. You have endless things of your own and first, take out time for those. Just give a reminder daily that, you have to 'recharge your batteries' before recharging others.
KEY POINT 2: Have your own super-heroes
We all do have our own super-heroes right? Of course, we do. And why this happens that we love super-heroes, we love the things they do, we love the way they save the country and we love how people praise them. We always want to have super-powers among us and trust me, practicing this habit of self-confidence will make you feel like a super-hero and you'll feel like you have your 3rd eye opened.
Choose a role model of your life and that person will become your super-hero unconsciously. You'll start following him/her, you'll start thinking that how he/she manages those tough situations even when he/she is tired? Where did he/she get all these powers? The actual thing is, your super-hero already planted a seed of 'self-confidence' inside him/her, and your super-hero is following his/her heart and practicing the terms which gave him/her satisfying consequences.
KEY POINT-3: Look at your success
All of us have certificates of winning in a sports tournament or an olympiad or a debate competition. And what really our parents or us do? We eliminate those certificates and keep them as a showpiece in the showpiece corner right? Actually, I do these things so I'm giving an example of that thing. So, when we get the time we just look at those certificates or crests and realize that indeed, I've done something great or extraordinary for which I've got that definite certificate. Now, you are not a human if you don't feel proud of yourself when you are seeing those certificates. Of course, all of us feel proud, and what we think? We think that we have to do something like that again so that I can feel proud of myself, this is where the 'self-confidence' starts working.
So, sometimes it is better if we look back into our past and find our accomplishments. Because this can give us energy, the power to build self-confidence.
KEY POINT-4: Be more empathetic
Doesn't matter at which level of our study life we are, empathy is something that every single person should learn. So, empathy is like feeling someone or observing any situation from another person's shoes. This is a really important thing to be learned from the early age of our life. What I've learned from being empathetic that, when you start to see the situation from another person's shoes, you will not see only one side of the coin rather than, you can actually make a similarity between the two sides and realize that everyone is trying to meet their own needs. Just the thing that make difference is, I'm a rich person for which I don't need the thing that a poor person needs. The similarity between a poor and rich is 'WE BOTH NEED SOMETHING'. So, it was just an example.
If you start to be more empathetic, then you will easily understand that no one is against you, no one is getting into your personal things, everyone is just trying to get their own seat.
KEY POINT-5: Accept yourself (specifically nose and skin color)
When we get into a fight and suddenly your opposite person says "I AM NOT LIKE YOU', and what you reply is like "YES OF COURSE! YOU EVER CANT BE LIKE ME". 😂 This is what we should reply to because every individual is unique in their own way, they have their own personalities. We are not 100% perfect because after all, we are human, and we have to accept this term that, we will do mistakes but those are great, who don't reply to those mistakes again. So, you have to think that you are, what you are!
I have written "specifically nose and skin color". You see when we see someone's face it's the nose that is coming forward all the time for obvious. And we all do have some problems with our nose and also with the skin colors too. Don't take me wrong but I'm actually writing my experiences here. But when I started to build up and work on self-confidence, I observed that I really didn't care how my nose looks, how people look into it, and not even with my skin color. So, when you can build up this emotion into you, trust me you are growing up your self-confidence.
KEY POINT-5: Take care of your life
Some people are like, "Oh, seriously I don't know about my future, let Almighty do all the things". Okay, so let me really say that, Yes Almighty do have control over your past, present, and future. But dude, you are missing the word 'hard-working' here. Yes your future is written or I can say luck, But Almighty wrote that depending on what you will do on Earth because He is aware of everything and everyone, you too. So, don't just say, already my future is written I don't need to worry, let whatever happen. You have to work hard and then expect something better. This takes us to 'self-awareness in our life'. You have to take the grip of your life and have full control over your life.
KEY POINT-6: Just think, you are better
We can't just stay backward saying that, "she/he is better than me, I cant do more than him/her". Look, no one is saying that 'YOU HAVE TO BE ELON MUSK'. But, rather we have to think that, I will be someone or a big man like ELON MUSK. Here, the notable point is, 'YOU WANT TO BE A SUCCESSFUL MAN, NOT A CARBON COPY'. So, don't try to be Elon Musk because if you don't love space, then no matter how much you try, you can never love space or make a bank balance on it. You have to do WHAT YOU LOVE. YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE YOUR PASSION. And for this, you have to accept this thing that you are unique, your ideas are unique and etc. There is no one like you. When you will accept this thing of yours, you are close to your success.
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